[育兒]幼兒按摩課程試上~

不好意思 一開始就來一張脫光光的啦~~ (其實本文內其他照片也都一樣...)

去年(2011)九月多在PTT媽寶版上看到MATO25網友po一篇文章標題是

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[好康]用嬰幼兒按摩增進親子互動
位爸爸媽媽好，我是2011年由國際嬰幼兒按摩訓練中心完成培訓的專業講師
目前需要找5位家庭做教學的實習
如果您對嬰幼兒按摩有興趣，想學習嬰幼兒按摩來當作親子互動的一個方法媒介
誠摯的歡迎您回信到我ptt的信箱

對象: 台北縣市3歲以前的嬰幼兒
地點: 各位的家中 (需要捷運公車可到達的地方)
時間: 預計會約晚上七點以後，教學時間30~50分鐘
  會視孩子的情況反應有所調整，共3次教學課程
費用: 免費

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不用說我當然是馬上替那時大概是四個多月的大鳥弟報名參加
媽媽我心中幻想著按摩老師會來家裡替弟弟按摩個三次
我只要在旁邊悠哉的學習 然後弟第當晚就會超好睡
沒想到 完全是在作夢  根本不能以貪小便宜的心態來看這個課程啊~
(讓我想起健寶園一對一音樂課的噩夢....非洲歌我哪會唱啊)
有看首圖就知道 因為mato老師 會帶假嬰兒來啦 嗚嗚嗚嗚

收到MATO25的回信後 很快就約好第一次的上課時間
但因為每次都是很認真(無誤)的學習 沒有特意留下照片
下面的照片都是最後一次上課才想起應該拍些照片留念


每一次的按摩我們都是在遊戲墊上面操作 就算尿尿了也很好清理
上面的動作就是--按壓 一邊用手掌按+壓 一邊慢慢的移動位置~

因為想要讓爸爸可以一起參與的關係都是約在周間的晚上
每次看到MATO (是個超秀氣的小姐優) 上完班上完課大包小包過來都覺得很辛苦也很感激他
他目前就是復健師 然後會嬰兒按摩有興趣就去進修這個課程
實習完像大鳥弟或是更大的小孩後 他就會正式拿到證照

第一次上課 MATO還拿出專用的按摩油送給我們 無色無味無害無毒!~
不過據他的說法 要是媽媽有自己喜好的 "嬰兒專用"按摩油也都可以使用
我家的剛好都不大適合  所位不大適合 就是像乳液 跟乳霜 (EX施巴)
因為他們太好吸收了 還沒開始推捏 皮膚就都吸收進去 沒有潤滑的效果
我想 香茅油之類應該也不會適合......

因為當時是9月 還有點熱 其實家裡都有開冷氣
但MATO說 按摩完 (看小孩安分狀態) 一般來說大概是20-30分鐘
小朋友的身體 體溫都會 "降低" 所以最好是把冷氣關掉
用具方面 因為我家有怕龍遊戲墊 所以就直接在那個上面操作
當然可以在下面鋪包巾或是大浴巾 因為按摩到下半身
就要給BABY脫光光 怕他們一時太興奮就大便或尿尿啦
需要準備的東西就只有這樣 接下來就是正試的一些手法介紹



mato 都會隨時注意寶寶和家長的反應 來看接下來要進行哪一個部分

大鳥弟算是很配合的寶寶 除了臉部比較敏感 不喜歡人家觸碰
其他部分他通通都被按光了
我依稀記得的幾個比較重要的手法有:
1.按壓: MATO說小朋友最喜歡的就是這樣的感受 非常簡單 用整個手掌併攏 然後稍稍用力的去按+壓
    寶寶身體面積比較大的地方 EX 大腿 小腿 背 屁股 等等 這個動作可以給她們安心感
   就好像抱著他們拍他們的背一様 慢慢的按壓可以讓他們先放鬆  .
   所以幾乎所有部位都是從按壓先開始

2. 分推: 就是用兩隻手的大拇指由身體某個部位中心點開始往兩邊推開 面積比較大的部位可以由上往下分區操作
EX 小腿 手臂 腳掌 手掌  印象很深的是 在分推腳掌的時候 因為大鳥弟才4個月 腳根本就超小的 一隻大拇指 就快要佔滿腳跟的寬度
但就算這樣 也要 分~~~推~~~優~~~  這個步驟就很需要滋潤一點的按摩油 不然根本推不動

3.按:  這個動作跟第一個的按壓不同 他是定點式的去壓比較小的部位 EX手指 腳趾 MATO教的按摩分工很細 連手指腳趾都有幫寶寶放鬆到
所以很簡單 把寶寶的手掌拿起來 用你的手指一根一跟的按寶寶的手指就可以了

4. 揉:  這就比較像大人按摩會有的動作 就是從比較長的軀幹 EX小腿 手臂 的下方 大人的大拇指跟其他四指分開 握住軀幹下方 往上方一邊滑動一邊轉動
就是說 以小腿為例 本來從腳踝處虎口是在正面 可是滑到膝蓋處實 虎口可能已經在背面了 同樣這個動作也需要比較多的按摩油
  可以在做到這個部位的時候多用一點  MATO也有說到 因為這類動作敏感性和刺激性都比較強 所以要是寶寶有反抗 就可以跳過做其他步驟

5.拉  這個動作也是針對手指腳趾 就是把每一根手指腳趾都拉一拉搖一搖 鬆鬆筋的意思 記得不要太大力壓~

6. I L U腹部按摩手法: 這個I L U 其實算是滿熱門的一個手法 許多仿間的按摩書跟youtube上都有影片解釋 他是針對腹部操作 所以要是寶寶有脹氣
    除了做作空中腳踏車 也可以幫他試試這一個 學起來有點複雜 我怕我說明錯誤 還請有興趣的家長自己稍微google一下
   簡單一點的當然也可以就順時鐘幫他按壓肚臍周遭即可




你看大鳥弟有多享受 一邊舒服一邊吃奶嘴 還看鏡頭 反觀旁邊的假嬰兒 what are u doing? (還疑似比中指!)

其他還有好多好多手法 我就不一一列舉 重點是讓父母可以多一件活動和小寶寶接觸 增加親密感
分成三次當然一方便是要讓小朋友適應按摩這件事
所以每隔一周的上課 MATO也都希望家長可以在家裡抽空練習
不用一定要把教的步驟通通做過 甚至也不一定要脫光光做
小孩也不一定要躺著做 總之 嬰兒按摩 每個部位都可以做 每個時間也都可以做
最重要的就是小孩跟爸媽都心情愉悅 才會玩得開心

另一方面就是mato會依照寶寶的當天狀況來決定今天要上多久上哪些部分
如果上到一半寶寶很明顯不悅了 那他也會喊停 讓寶寶休息一下
且 他非常推薦由爸爸來按摩 (各位媽媽們!!是老師說的!!!!)
因為寶寶對媽媽有一種特殊聯結 所以由媽媽來按摩寶寶情緒反應比較小 他認為媽媽很了解他
但是 由爸爸來的時候 喜怒哀樂都會明顯很多 這樣一方便可以讓寶寶訓練如何表達 也可以增加爸爸跟小孩的親密感喔
爸爸就不會一直問你 寶寶怎麼了?

至於按完後大鳥弟有沒有睡比較好呢? 很遺憾.....他還是我行我素....

[炫耀]大鳥弟女朋友送的artscow寫真書

wowowowowowowowowo~~~
瞧瞧這是什麼~ 這不是artscow那讓人熟悉的包裝嗎?
不就是我家連續收了三本(還不算幫阿公阿罵作得出遊寫真書那一本)的artscow麻~~
這次的可不是我自己作的 可是大鳥弟未來的岳母作的啦 (羞)




起因就是因為兩小無猜一邊在四號公園約會 還一邊幫養樂多代言
大概是因為多多實在喝起來很甜蜜
看的丈母娘心花怒放 哀封拍起來也給他特別美麗咧 


不是我再說的 蘋果姐姐 也沒大我們多少個月 整個身材好高挑阿~
以後在生下來的後代保證可以當名模咧




不得不再說一次 有個伴真的是很好呢
一歲多開始小孩真的特別歡 每天從早餐開始就可以讓媽媽惱怒好幾次
有個伴可以一起惱怒 會降溫降的特別快 ^^"
有一種 阿 不是只有我這麼慘的fu




而且我們很有衛生喔 一人喝一罐 感情經得起考驗 不需要一人喝一半的啦~
小孩真的很神奇 也沒有人跟他說多多特別好喝
但他門就是一喝就上手阿~




最後還要補上 情侶髮夾的照片 不過怎麼看 蘋果妹都像是在生氣髮夾被大鳥弟搶走了

順便宣傳一下 有一樣住在四號公園附近的媽媽 看到我們 也可以 起來玩喔~~

the bridal smile

Yes, i am married on 16 May. 

the proposal

 

do you need a romantic proposal?
what is romantic?

to me, i'd rather to have a private one instead of
a public one.

of course, if it happens that way, I would still
be happy and even flattered

however, this moment should be private and intimate.

that's it,
after deciding to marry for a loooooooooong time,
after feeling i might not need a proposal,
it just happens!

unexpectedly, unforgetably,
fox designs a love adventure while
i just return from Tainan exhaustedly

this certainly adds the exciting feeling to all these.

starting with puzzle games and hide-and-seek,
it took me a lot of time to figure out the last message
--to open the front door.

i thought it would be my gift that Fox bought back from Disney

it turned out to be FOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooox
with a bunch of white roses!

and the ring
the ring
the ring

and the sentence

shall we marry?

that's it
the process probably interests me only.

as for the mysterious ring, he bought it secretly after i went back to tainan.

to stop me from buying the ring this weekend, he got it just this wed after he returned from China
very tiredly.

so
my answer would be

YES! and yes and yes and yes!

超世紀封神榜

i do not like this film

i am serious and quite fair, for

i've seen 變形金剛1.2 蝙蝠俠1.2.3.4

阿凡達...etc IN the TEATHER

considering my splendid experience,

i deserve the right to judge this film

it is not goooooooooooooood

the story could hardly be new to me,

for i should have known it as a foreign literature major.

or i should say,

the seeming illogical plot is fine to me

still, the film is awful and weird

first of all, where is the 3D effect used?
am i too stupid to observe that?
second, the heroines are not pretty, AGAIN
i mean the Helen in Troy is not amzing pretty as well.
American must have problem to tell the beauty of european women or
any women other than American
(well, sometimes, I do doubt if they call tell American as well)
thirdly, why do they borrow the costume from 300壯士?!
finally, it is my own problem
but
how come medusa is so popular these days,
i've seen her in more than one preview!

in a word , it is not gooooooooood

巴黎我愛你

as i mentioned in the article about NY, I Love You,
personal awareness of a specific city is kind of the criterion to
evaluate if the film is successful

to me, Paris, I Love You is undoubtedly the winner of the two

the reasom is simple

i have the luck to be in Paris when I was young

(this idiom comes from somewhere.... but i can't remember it right now)　

twice!

Is Paris a city of Love?
Is Paris a city of Lovers?
Yes and Yes
i would certainly agree to these two questions
Paris is a city of love
Paris is a city of lovers

as for the movie,
probably, it is composed of mostly European directors,
the aura is more sophisticated, intellectual-like,
more delicated,
everything in Paris is beautiful.

also, this one is less Benetton style
in NY,I love you, we see how these Americans
strive to include the story of all people"s"
(they even asked 那塔莉波曼 to act like that)

My favorite story is the one with the father
who is voluntary to take care of his grandchild in ordr his daughter
could still enjoy her life.

the love between them is really so touching
on the other hand,
the worst one is certainly 杜可風's
my comment is
just try to be a photographer for gooooooooood

紐約我愛你

There is definitely something wrong of my blogger
it keeps keeping me away from upload new articles
probably it , finally, finds out that it should preserve its source
for more meaningful staffs.

i did see the movie in the wrong order,
i mean,
i should have seen Paris J'taime before New York, I Love You.
Still whatever,
do i like the movie?
well it is not a new attempt to shoot a film
this way-to combine several shorter sections--to
demonstrate the atmosphere of a city

city and love
the two essential elements thing in the film
are they shown well?
I doubt,
the image of new york as an unbran city is never something new
the image of NY as a city full of love, well
it looks like love could have happened anywhere.

or,
the search of the uniqueness of NY city
has been replaced by
the uniqueness of those amazing directors.

in other words, you would be awed by the interesting stories,
the acting of the wonderful actors and actress,
or the splendid shooting skill

as for these and NY city,
i am really not so sure about their connection.

but i do confess
this sense is very probably caused by my unfamilierity of NY city.

still, there is one story that I love in the film,
the one with a young man cheating by an shopkeeper and
his actress daughter.
the way the youth making love under (or on?) the tree in the park
 is realyl hilarious and unforgettable

it is very clever and funny.
as for the rest,
i hate the ethnic issue and the benetton style
which, unfortuntely American are crazy about