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[大鳥妹] 有時限的戒手指運動開始!




高雄舊照


沒想到要找出妹妹吃手的照片還不大簡單咧!
是這樣的比起在我們的幫助下吃奶嘴的大鳥哥,妹妹更偏好他的大姆哥。
先屏除吃手好不好,DAMN太可愛了!!!!!!!!!!
我真的覺得他吸著大姆哥的樣子超可愛的!!!!
但可愛歸可愛,再放任他下去我怕他以後恨我。
所以本來說好三歲後就不可以再吃了(看我對他多寬容!哥哥可是兩歲初就戒掉奶嘴)
可是隨著我們越來越常坐公車出遊,每每上車他就進入吃手模式,讓我看了很礙眼。
要他拿出來咩,他就是性子說他「現在」就想睡覺。
為了這個我總是在公車上發脾氣,又沒辦法說服自己就由它去吧。
就這樣下定決心要戒掉他這個習慣了。
大拇哥掰掰!掰掰!

步驟免不了就以下這些:
1 .正式開始前幾天就要不停洗腦長大的小朋友不吃手。吃手的小朋友長不大。一直講一直講。
2.很愛買玩具的老母我,藉機去買了喜歡很久的BTOYS的串珠玩具,高高的放在小孩看的到的地方,然後跟妹妹說那是他成功的獎品。
3. 決定戒手的方法,不外乎曉以大義,口頭訓斥,跟外力。前兩者老母我實在沒耐心盯著他,所以就借了據說非常有用的防止咬指甲液。而且還聽從建議一大早起床就先塗上了,
因為是類似指甲油,可以維持一兩天都沒問題。
4.繼續曉以大義跟觀察妹妹有沒有吃手,還有在他發覺很苦時要忍住偷笑的慾望。
5. 雖然沒有像朋友說得一天就戒掉,我想是因為妹妹快三歲了比較大,但約兩三天就完全戒掉了。

然後,老母就又偷偷的惆悵起來了。
就跟戒掉尿布一樣,就再也沒有機會幫孩子包尿布了。
戒掉大拇哥之後,就再也看不到妹妹吸著手手那可愛樣子。
別說是小孩要長大,是老母要往前踏進啊 哎呀









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the sign

This is the talisman that I bought last year in Japan. It came from a famous temple which is shown in Geisha. the exact temple in which the heroine runs across numerous red gateway.
the talisman is meant to protect the one who wears it and to reconcile the possible danger before hand.
Usually, I am not a very superstitious person. however this kind of trivial signs always bother me a lot.
Every time something close to me is broken or lost, I could not help but wonder if there was something happened and I did not know for the moment and forever.
The sense of insecurity would annoy me for a while until the busy life schedule pushs me further.

On the other hand, I am kind of released at this moment, for I tend to assume this talisman had
solved some possible problem or danger for me.

This evening on my way to the MRT station, this Fox-shaped talisman dropped on the elevator.
Immediately I pick it up and keep it in my bag.
Then once again, I wonder what could happen and what would happen~

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